Unrequited Affections : Love

You know all of this is a product of low self-esteem.

You think nobody is gonna like you....

 Nobody is gonna marry you and all of that stuff.....

Just because you have raging hormones ..

And your day dreaming about girls and things like that..

It doesn't mean you're in love.

It just means that you haven't controlled your temptation yet.

And you're ruining somebody's life,

You're ruining an entire family. 

Do you realize what you're doing?

 And you call it love?

If she was a burn victim or something,....

If her hand burnt off...

. If her ear was missing, you would still be in love?

 Or you find somebody else all of sudden?

If you can't answer that question , then honestly, come on ..

You're not in love , you' re just hormonal. 

That's all you are..

If you're okay talking to a girl like that...

 Then you should be okay with somebody talking to your sister

you're okay with that too?

We have to end this thing ....

 Just stop....

 Just cut it off....

 Its not good for you....

 Its okay to be attracted to a girl....

 Allah put that in you....

 You're not evil for finding a girl beautiful....

That's not haram for you feel that way....

 You have to control it.... 

Control it by yourself....

 Our deen teaches us self-control.... 

P/S : An excerpt of a talk from a scholar ,
" You're not in love," via Youtube .